LEARNING ENGLISH - Understand The Psychology

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          The world is changing fast than ever before and therefore having different skills is very much essential nowadays. Those who know and have realized the importance of having skills, working on it.

          ENGLISH COMMUNICATION is one of the most required skills in 21st century. By understanding the need and importance of English, people are taking the efforts for improvement. If you are working on your English communication, trying hard enough and still you are not getting the expected results then let me share some facts.

Now answer these questions ....

◆ What makes you to learn English?

◆ What are your reasons to learn it?

◆ What motivates you to learn it?

and the most common answers for them are ....

I want to score more in the exam.

I want to go for higher education.

I want to succeed in the competitive exams.

I want to crack an interview.

I want to work in a reputed multinational company.

I want to get a promotion. 

I want to be a good communicator at the work place.

I want to be good at handling the meetings.

I want to expand my business.

I want to help my children in their studies.

I want to travel across the world.

And the list goes on .....

Almost everyone has such reasons to learn English. And sad truth is that most of us fail to achieve it.

So, what is the reason behind it?

What are the barriers?

Why people fail to succeed in it?

                        WHY?

" You don't get motivated enough."

You don't feel the kind of motivation which helps you to improve English. Whatever the goals you have for learning English, you must understand the psychology behind those goals. Have you ever thought about your psychology behind learning English? What are your psychological reasons for learning it?

What do I mean that?

To understand this one please ask this question to yourself...

How do I feel when I communicate in English?

◆ I feel low confident

◆ I feel insulted

◆ I feel guilty

◆ I feel demotivated

◆ I feel depressed

◆ I feel stressed

◆ I feel tensed

◆ I feel anxiety

◆ I feel negativity

◆ I have fear of failure

◆ I have fear of rejection

The list goes on and on about such emotions.

If this happens to you again and again then what would happen to YOU and YOUR LIFE if you fail to improve your English?

What would be the consequences?

It becomes difficult to achieve your life goals. You can't do better. The state of your mind gets disturbed. You lose your confidence. Your self esteem goes down.

You feel PAIN at the psychological level. 

Now ask this question to yourself…

How do I want to be or feel while communicating in English?


◆ I want to be CONFIDENT.

◆ I want to be MOTIVATED.

◆ I want to be POSITIVE.

◆ I want to be EFFECTIVE.

◆ I want to be FLUENT.

◆ I want to feel JOY.

◆ I want to feel the feeling of ACHIEVEMENT.

◆ I want to enjoy the feeling of being SUCCESSFUL.

◆ I want to ENJOY ENGLISH.

◆ I want to be HAPPY.



Now you can understand the psychology behind learning English.

You seek PLEASURE. 

Your mind seeks PLEASURE. 

You want to feel PLEASURE.

Well, this will motivate you enough to learn English. Your focus goes on ultimate PLEASURE and you do much better in English. You achieve your goals much faster and easily than you ever thought before.

Let's enjoy the journey of PAIN TO PLEASURE.


Live With Passion,

Mr. Amit Manav

( Life Coach & Motivational Speaker )

Mob :- 9923728256

E-mail :- amitmanav27@gmail.com

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